Mother's Day HistoryContrary to popular belief, Mother's Day was not
conceived and fine-tuned in the boardroom of Hallmark. The earliest tributes to
mothers date back to the annual spring festival the Greeks dedicated to Rhea,
the mother of many deities, and to the offerings ancient Romans made to their
Great Mother of Gods, Cybele. Christians celebrated this festival on the fourth
Sunday in Lent in honor of Mary, mother of Christ. In England this holiday was
expanded to include all mothers and was called Mothering Sunday.
In the
United States, Mother's Day started nearly 150 years ago, when Anna Jarvis, an
Appalachian homemaker, organized a day to raise awareness of poor health
conditions in her community, a cause she believed would be best advocated by
mothers. She called it "Mother's Work Day."
Fifteen years later, Julia
Ward Howe, a Boston poet, pacifist, suffragist, and author of the lyrics to the
"Battle Hymn of the Republic," organized a day encouraging mothers to rally for
peace, since she believed they bore the loss of human life more harshly than
anyone else.
In 1905 when Anna Jarvis died, her daughter, also named
Anna, began a campaign to memorialize the life work of her mother. Legend has it
that young Anna remembered a Sunday school lesson that her mother gave in which
she said, "I hope and pray that someone, sometime, will found a memorial
mother's day. There are many days for men, but none for mothers."
Anna
began to lobby prominent businessmen like John Wannamaker, and politicians
including Presidents Taft and Roosevelt to support her campaign to create a
special day to honor mothers. At one of the first services organized to
celebrate Anna's mother in 1908, at her church in West Virginia, Anna handed out
her mother's favorite flower, the white carnation. Five years later, the House
of Representatives adopted a resolution calling for officials of the federal
government to wear white carnations on Mother's Day. In 1914 Anna's hard work
paid off when Woodrow Wilson signed a bill recognizing Mother's Day as a
national holiday.
At first, people observed Mother's Day by attending
church, writing letters to their mothers, and eventually, by sending cards,
presents, and flowers. With the increasing gift-giving activity associated with
Mother's Day, Anna Jarvis became enraged. She believed that the day's sentiment
was being sacrificed at the expense of greed and profit. In 1923 she filed a
lawsuit to stop a Mother's Day festival, and was even arrested for disturbing
the peace at a convention selling carnations for a war mother's group. Before
her death in 1948, Jarvis is said to have confessed that she regretted ever
starting the mother's day tradition.
Despite Jarvis's misgivings,
Mother's Day has flourished in the United States. In fact, the second Sunday of
May has become the most popular day of the year to dine out, and telephone lines
record their highest traffic, as sons and daughters everywhere take advantage of
this day to honor and to express appreciation of their mothers
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